Is It a Must to Marry?

I just got off a date with a girl I got hooked up with by a mutual friend, and I feel so low in spirit. Every thing was going okay till she asked of my age. I told her, and the expression on her face was that of someone that had just seen an alien. Then came the endless questions..."Why ain't you married?" "Why don't you have a steady girlfriend?" "Why are you still single in your 30s?" Oh my God! I wanted to shoot myself. Why is it a must for a young man or woman to be married at a certain age in Africa? Yea, I know there are loads of benefits in marrying early. But what if the individual in question has some plans and has to sacrifice the beauty of early marriage for something else? Why must you make that person feel like there is something wrong with him or her?

9 Reasons Why Men Cheat

I wrote an article titled, 9 Reasons Why Women Cheat three days ago. Today, I am going to be dealing with men. Yea, so why do men cheat? I am not implying that all men cheat, but everyone knows a considerable number of men in relationships/marriages cheat. Today we want to know why men cheat...so that maybe a woman can stop her man from cheating by looking into some of the reasons why her man might cheat on her. Unlike women who mostly go into extra marital affairs with their emotions, most men cheat on their wives mainly for sexual related reasons. 

9.  Ego Boost

Man has always been the one to chase after woman from time immemorial. So, let's look at man like a hunter. A hunter usually has an ego boost whenever he goes out hunting and comes back home with a juicy kill. The more difficult the kill, the bigger the hunter's ego. It's the same with men in relationships...they want to conquer all. Even when they have a great girlfriend/wife, which many consider a great catch, they might still go out of their way to conquer another rare specimen just to get that ego boost. In situations like this, it is mostly sexual. Once the guy has 'hit it,' he would probably bounce.