Is It a Must to Marry?

I just got off a date with a girl I got hooked up with by a mutual friend, and I feel so low in spirit. Every thing was going okay till she asked of my age. I told her, and the expression on her face was that of someone that had just seen an alien. Then came the endless questions..."Why ain't you married?" "Why don't you have a steady girlfriend?" "Why are you still single in your 30s?" Oh my God! I wanted to shoot myself. Why is it a must for a young man or woman to be married at a certain age in Africa? Yea, I know there are loads of benefits in marrying early. But what if the individual in question has some plans and has to sacrifice the beauty of early marriage for something else? Why must you make that person feel like there is something wrong with him or her?

Is It Possible for a Man and a Woman to be Just Friends?

Yea, that's the question of the day; Is it possible for a man and woman to be just friends? Is it possible for a man and a woman to be just friends without some form of emotions creeping in? Nope...I don't think so. Well, that's just me, but I will speak on why I think it is impossible.



Throw a woman and a man in house, and restrict them from leaving the premises for one month. It is almost guaranteed that they would start to develop strong feelings for each other, even if they never found each other attractive the first time they saw each other. This is the same reason why there is a lot of sleeping around among coworkers; being in close proximity with someone day in day out over a long period of time makes people develop feelings for each other.

9 Reasons Why Women Cheat

I am not implying all women cheat, or that majority of women cheat, but we can't overlook the fact that a large portion of women cheat on their partners. The percentage of women that cheat would probably never match that of men that cheat, but they sure are closing in the gap fast. I don't know if it has anything to do with the rise in the number of feminists we have in this part of the world right now. Or maybe we can put the blame on social media, and how it is easier to hide an ongoing relationship from your spouse if it done via message exchange on social media sites.


Today, I want to put up 9 reasons why women in relationships/marriages cheat. This is not to put down anyone, but to help couples know they how can prevent the cheating nature from creeping into a good woman. And, if the damage has already been done, this article can help a couple work their way out of it. So, below are the top 9 reasons why women cheat.





9.  Boredom
An idle mind is a devil's workshop. That saying is very true. A lot of women most times just crave human attention, and before you know it they are spending too much time talking to that jobless neighbor that lives in the boys quarters. And, one thing might lead to another, and...